Well hello! I guess the first thing you should know about me is that im never going to judge you. Ive been through alot of hard stuff and there is nothing you can say that is going to surprise me. I want to be your friend, i want to be here for you and if you need additional help you can always talk to me on facebook.I have alot of expericence when it comes to giving advice. Im actually majoring in physcology. I love helping people and finding their best intentions. Ill give you the honest truth if you ask for my advice and i'll tell you straigh up what needs to be done. Most people lie because the truth hurts, but i believe ultimately that the truth will set you free. I know way to much about love because ive had my fair share of relationships and i know what its like to have someone break your heart but yet you still manage to love them with the pieces you have left. Im here to help you let go and move foward. And with everyone i help i will leave you with a quote to memorize and help you with your situation. I hope i help you :)
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i just wanted to tell you what a wonderful site you have and just reading your advices, i am learning a lot from you and i am sure your readers are more that happy to know that someone is giving them unbiased and true advice. good work!!
as ususal i am confused and i dont know why i am afraid of committment and i have trust issues (like i know men cheat and a relationship is too stressful) what can i do? i like this guy, we have been intimate but nothing serrious but i am enjoying it and when things do not go as i have planned, if i am the least bit irritated, i freak out and i know he doesnt deserve it but i am so stressed and dont know what to do. maybe im not ready for a relationship but how will i be ready? am 33. thanks!!! (link)
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Thanks so much :) Yes i understand. Its ok to be distant from putting yourself into a relationship. Because once you do get in one your allowing them the chance to toll with your emotions. But in life your going to have to take risks and step away from the safety on the sidewalk as i like to say. Sometimes you have to cross the highway. Your never going to know if your ready untill you put yourself in one. If you like him and want to keep him around i would consider trying to make it something more official. I mean you dont have to rush into it, have fun and be yourself. But if you dont want him out of your life you should consider how important he is to you? I mean if you didnt really like the guy you wouldnt get aggeravted when you cant spend time with him. Be positive and dont over analayze things. "Life is what happens when your busy making other plans." I love this quote because it hits the cold hard truth. Sometimes you got to go out there and make things happen you want to happen otherwise life is just going to pass you by and you might just miss out on something great! I hope i helped! :)
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oh you have helped definitely! thank you and I will take it easy! youre spot on ! great advice and analysis! appreciate it!! have a good week!
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