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I dont know what to do. Im only 14 and ive been in a relationship with this boy for a year, on and off now, and he's been talking about us having a child. Ive been really thinking about this and I really feel like Im ready for something like this. I know its not exactly a walk in the park bringing up a child and that it isnt something i can just forget about if i get fed up of the responsibilities. I do want to have a child with him now but honestly im not sure if I should. I saw what you said to some girls question and just thought youd be able to help. Please reply, Im not sure who else to ask.
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You are too young to have a child. You should live your life first. Go to college, finish high school, try to strive for greatness first. Having a child at your age would be a big mistake on your part and possibly his. You said you to have an on/off relationship, who's to say that when one of those off moments come along, he will still be with you. Having a child is a bigger responsibility than you may think. You will have to feed the child, buy clothes for them, buy all the essential health products, and sacrifice a lot of your time. You having a baby will effect you, your boyfriend, and both of your parents. Having a baby is a extreme life changing experience and no person should persuade you to ruin your life for their needs. Just wait until the time is right, when you are fully an adult.
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THANK YOU! You helped save me from the WORST decision of my life! He was 18 and getting with 4 other girls I know of. He said he would only love ME forever but he was trying to get all of us pregnant at the same time. He got two girls pregnant so far that I heard of and one girl has TWO babies by him! This is the second guy I dated that wanted me to have his baby and the second guy who was busy with a whole bunch of other girls at the same time! LAST BLACK GUY I DATE EVER!
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