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Gender: Female Location: England Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: May 7, 2011 Answers: 111 Last Update: January 8, 2013 Visitors: 8586
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Hello,
My name is Kailey and i am a 17 year old female. my problem is within my body, or i guess you could say outside of my body. My Labia is alot larger than normal, and i dont know why it just is. I dont know what to do because i know guys dont like them, i watched a movie called hallpass with my boyfriend..alone and there was a whole scene going off about how large mouthed vaginas aren't okay. And also Dane cook thinks there discusting. I am a very good looking girl and my boyfriend is very attracted to me.. but i wont let him go down on me or anything because of how i am. i just need to talk to someone about this because it really makes me unhappy and i wish i wasnt so different :( (link)
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Well, to start with all vagina's are different anyway, no one really has the "perfect" one and chances are your boyfriend won't care so long as he's getting some lol. Anyway, the reason people make fun of the "fat pussy" deal is because typically people that are very stretched out are considered sluts (through multiple sexual experiences) and the idea of them being wide/loose is supposed to be unappealing to men who like a tight fit. But typically, very VERY few men would leave a girl because of the shape of her privates (unless there horribly diseased but in this case that doesn't seem to be the problem).
If however, this is a problem you seriously can't get over, you can make an appointment to see your gynecologist and consider vaginal reconstruction, which is a form of plastic surgery which reshapes them and is common among porn stars, but I repeat, few men will spend hours musing over this, when it gets to sexy time, they think wit their little heads and that means no time for admiring haha. anyway best of luck to you and your boyfriend, and hopefully with age you'll understand that this isn't a big deal :)
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Well i hured that the surgery comes with multiple risks, like losing feeling, getting infected, but my biggest problem is money, do you know of any sites that would have this information? i live in Canada so healthcare is pretty good.
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