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I am a 16 year old female. I am going to be a senior in high school. When I was back in jr high, I had a favorite teacher and it was quite evident that I was his favorite student. We were so close, he was like a second dad to me, how I saw it anyway. Other students were jealous that they didn't get the treatment from him that I did, so badly that the only thing they could come up with is that we were "together". Honestly, from an outsider looking it, it would look as if we were dating. But he would have no intention of dating a 7/8/9 th grader which was what I was in jr high. I am now in sr high and we still stay in contact, he comes to my school to watch over some teachers and we'll steal quick glances at each other, he'll tell me he likes when I visit him during the school year on my walks home, I'm the only student that during my years of having him and now not having him that is able to call him by his first name, he asks me for my opinions on his teaching lessons (about what would interest the kids because I had him and he knows that I would be honest if his lessons were boring), he asks me about my personal life and he talks to me about his which is something he never does with other students, the first time I visited him was after Christmas break with a friend of mine and she asked if he liked his late Christmas present and he said "I love my fantastic Christmas present" and she said after we left that he hadn't looked that happy in a long time.
--what do you think about us? more than just aquaintences?
now, the main reason for asking my question, I came back from Creation Festival this week and I was telling my brother about a singer there that he would like so I went up to my brother and was telling him "hey, there was this guy there named" and before I could tell my brother the guy's name, his girlfriend cut me off and said "(teacher's name), did you have to hide to be together?" I was speechless, I didn't tell my brother anything about my teacher ever. So how did his girlfriend even know? She didn't even go to my jr high, so how did she even know about the teacher, let alone what all of the kids thought about us?
Please help me out. I'm wondering if he like, called for a summer music program or something while I was away. Are you like everyone else and think we are together? How would she know about him?
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excuse me other answer v but you dont know if the man was twice her age and had kids? if like in pretty little liars, hes a young unmarried guy, and your almost a senior? having a close relationship is fine. the question is, do you like him? and what did you say to your brothers girlfriend? If you like him, you should probably wait till college to start dating him. But if you dont, you just like being friends, then keep it that way. Being so close to him when you were younger was very risky, but now that your almost graduated its fine.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you! Finally someone that understands and isn't yelling at me.
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