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i'm eighteen years old.was in a relationship for the past four years.everything was absolutely fine..till my bf decided it had to end(a week back).i kinda understand why he had to do so..and totally know he did the right thing..but i'm not able to let go..though breaking up was the most practical thing to do, i'm not able t accept it..and the thing that makes it even more complicated is that we had been doing more than just hanging out.so after all this..i feel like i've been used and cheated..i'm not able to tell my parents about it cuz i'm feeling guilty.. have already attempted suicide twice but it didn't really work..i have no idea what to do,, every little thing in my life reminds me of him..i wanna hate him but am really not able to...
and knowing that he's moved on is only hurting me more...i don't know what to do and i need all the help i can get...not to get back to him..but to let go of him..... (link)
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why dont you try turning the negativity of ther break up into positivity. what i mean by this is that rather then you feeling bad because he has moved on, be happy for him as you still love him. use the energy to drive you forward to move on, find a new hobby you like doing and take it up to take you mind of things. your life will feel glum for a while but it will turn around trust me hun. I would advise you dont tell your parents that have tried to kill yourself as this make them loose there trust for you, just let them know how the break up has got you down alot....they will understand im sure they will have been in your shoes when they was younger.
i really hope this helps you.
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thank you so much for helping me out.. i really appreciate it..
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