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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this?

You have nothing to hide. You have both just gotten out of a relationship in which your still in love with the person and you guys were just feeling lonely and at the time it felt like the right thing because you have so much in common and are feeling the same things at the moment. Just treat it like it is. A complete misunderstanding. It wasn't intended and you don't like him like that. Don't stress to much about it because then you'll make it seem like it's more than it is. I doubt things will change but you might both be feeling a bit awkward about this so maybe you guys should talk but this time just air your feelings about the kiss, and keep it to that. I'm sure it won't hurt to talk about what happened, you just have to push past this and good things will soon start happening again, I hope this helps, if you need any more help please don't hesitate to inbox me again, good luck xx

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