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I am from india. My boyfriend is unhappy with me. All I can do is cry everyday. I dint treat well in the beggining. Gave my friends more importance n all..I cheated on him once and begged for forgiveness. He said forgave me. But everytime we fight he brings it up. Feels like shit.why is he still with me if he can't forget wat I did. He says he can't sleep without drinking every nite,make him very unhappy and disturb him a lot. But he says he can't be without me. I'm trying to change to make him, us happy but all he says is he's not happy with me. It hurts so much!! I really don't wanna live a life thinking how unhappy I made him. If I die maybe in my next life atleast ican be a better person. When we started going out he was the nicest guy ever! Then I changed. God knows why. I was really rude to him amd fought a lot. And he changed after that too seeing me all differnet.we both are so fuckn unhappy. He doesn't easily forget any small mistake I make. Anything I say by mistake also he'll fight with me. If there is any advice to make things normal again, please give me. Or else atlease tell me how to kill myself. Whatever I try I'm scared I'll end up alive and be a huge disgrace for my family.I really love him so much and I'd even die if my non existence makes him happy too. Its because of me he's like this now. I can never forgive myself. Never. (link)
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No one is perfect..... everyone makes mistakes. By killing yourself? what is that going to do to him..he will just become a drunk addict... he will never let it go.. trust me it might be like that now but he needs to let go of it. If he loves you..well he obviously does if he is still with you , he is just not over of how he got treated.. but you need to remeber when your in a relationship.. please do not cheat because the truth is YOU WILL GET THE KARMA back... you love him so much.. you say well you do because you care..but please dont kill yourself... it is not right and it it against God's word. If you really want to have a good thing to go on between you two , please sit down and talk to him about how you feel.. talk to him and show him , well show him more then talk with him because actions speak louder then words. You wont kill anyone or yourself because it is against the coming back to the circle of life you can end up worse then you are by killing yourself. Please for the sake of him and for you and for everyone do not have those thoughts, please repent. And please talk to him , tell him cry show him how much you care about him. I understand that is not a small mistake that is a bigger mistake.. but you cannot go back in time.. please do not do that again if you love him so much.. you shouldn't be cheating on him.
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Number one. i slept with my ex back then. we had broken up and one drunken night i called and shit happened. my current boyfriend was studying in singapore.
Number two. i give too much space to guys, he says. ok whenever someone talks to my im extra friendly. i talk a lot. and this makes my boyfriend feel i have more fun with other guys n not him. i even used to talk to guys who had a crush one me. why wud i do that!
he fell for me, not for any physical thing. he was so totallly shy to make any moves on him. he treated so fuckin wel! but i took advantage of that. amd here i am facing the consequences. i deserve it. but im tryn to make things better. i really dono how to go abt making him trust me again. itll take some time.. after i posted my previous question, the next day he tell me he's gonna gimme another chance but i shudnt screw it up. we went for a movie n all had fun yday. loads. but im worried deep inside where id screw it up. noone has ever loved me like he did. noone treated me so special. its hard to trust guys these days. but him, he's one special guy. it's me who has changed him like this. into a monster.
hope i can change him back into the loving and caring guy, who used to make sure i was comfortable and then think abt himself. he was the perfect guy i had always wanted.. wat the hell do i do to change him back!!?
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