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Q: I am a 21 year old female having no kid,inlove with a 28 yr old guy with 2 kids.we've dating 4 almost abwt a year,and he's also inlove wit the mother of the kids..we r in da sme flat and da mothr is livin in far in anada village while we r in town,but evrytym whn she visit ma bf i always have to be alne no matter she gonna sty 4 a mnth??he dnt cl nor cum 2 see me? And he does'nt even tel me abwt his plnz 4 da future...wts da best way dump or be patient??
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My honest opinion is that you are wasting your time with this guy. I see little more than constant drama in your future with him. He's got two kids with a women to whom I'm guessing he was never married. He's in love with her, but he's got something going with you and when she's in town he basically ignores you and spends his time with her. Think about what that says about his priorities and values and whether that's really the kind of man you want to focus your time, energy, and emotions on. Think also what this says about your own self-concept that you are willing to be shoved into a closet, so to speak, when it is inconvenient for him to have you around. I think that word "convenient" really describes his relationship with you. He gets sex and attention from you when it is convenient for him, and pays little or no attention to you when it isn't. You can do better.
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The truth hurts,tnx a lot Rumenly for your advice its highly appreciated would'nt ask for more,i'm now in a green light.
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Gender: Male Location: Minnesnowta Occupation: Mail Processing Equipment Mechanic Age: 51 Member Since: May 30, 2011 Answers: 76 Last Update: April 25, 2014 Visitors: 4776
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