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I'm just a girl going through the transition of a teenager to an adult and all that it entails.

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Everything is just going so well for me. Is that bad I don't want to date? I feel it would be a distraction... I'm doing very well in all my classes right now and don't feel I have the time... The main reason I ask this is my friends keep trying to set me up because my ex of 3 years dumped me a few months ago and they think I need to get out there and date... I keep telling them I don't want to but they don't understand. I know they mean well and just want to see me happy but I am...I just don't know what to say to them anymore. I tried explaining that if I wanted a bf I could find my own, and that I don't want to get serious until after college.... Please help meh!

Nothing wrong at all about wanting to avoid serious relationships. Many people decide to do this during the important school and career years of their life, or even out of simple preference!
It's easy to see why your friends may be concerned but the fact of the matter is that you havent come to this decision due to negative circumstances. Your decision is not made on an unhealthy basis.
You just need to be first with your friends. Its your life and you're happy in it and in the decisions you've made. Should you start dating again it will be when youre ready and when you decide, not before. You appreciate their concern but you want no more fix ups. This you must firmly and clearly explain to them. No means no.

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