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well i was with a guy from 2 years and 3 months. he left to the Dominican republic and he cheeted on me there. the whole cause of this was because he saw a picture of me and a guy holding hands. but while that happened me and him were at a break. then he came back from Dominican republic and came to me saying he wanted to be with me. at that time he had a girl friend in the Dominican republic. he went back and he did the same thing. now he is back and he has a girlfriend over there! which i know he likes her. it hurts me because i love him. he tells me that if i treat him right he is going to stay with me. am so confused because i really love him. i need help :(

This person clearly doesnt respect you and i can tell you now that he doesn't really love you.
Instead of coming to you about the picture he acted out of spite and self gratification. Even then, you holding hands with another guy doesnt mean anything, he didn't even try to understand the situation; none of this condones cheating whatsoever. If you both were on a break then maybe its understandable he was with someone else for the duration.
However, he comes back to you telling you he wants you and cheats on you. If he was serious about making the relationship work then he would have left the girl in the Dominican and tried to make amends with you, something he never did.
Not only is he still with her but he's stringing you along and emotionally hurting you in the process. Let's face it: he has no intention of committing himself to you, he has shown no real growth neither has he made an effort to fix your relationship.
Your feelings for him are stopping you from seeing the reality of the situation infront of you. You dont need me telling you all of this because deep down you know it already. This is one of those instances where you need to look beyond your emotions. You're better than this and there are many guys out there who would treat you with the respect that you deserve.
I'd strongly recommend ridding yourself of him, start the grieving process and then move on with your life.

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