Hi everyone! I'm andi...better known as sparkle26. im a female in my teens. here's some things about me...i love music...especially rock n roll and i play guitar. i'm also an artist-in-training. ive been painting at an art studio since i was 4 or 5.i'm also a runner. my philosophy is to always look at life at a bright, lively perspective. feel free to ask me a question any time!
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It's a bit of a long one!
I have two friends who I've known for a few years and in this time they've made their feelings known for each other which is fine by me. The trouble is, he doesn't know what he wants, where as she wants a long term relationship with him. She keeps asking me for advice and I'm just running out of things to tell her. I tell her that if something was going to happen, I think it would have happened by now. But then things do happen, like they kiss or he tells her he loves her and loves spending time with her but then seems to pretend like it never happened. When she asks him if they're going to get together he says maybe, I just don't know what I want. They're planning to go away on holiday together for two weeks in June this year and she wants to know if she should go all the way with him, but she doesnt want to ruin their friendship as she thinks he'll just pretend like it never happened, which will mean she will end their friendship because things haven't changed, which would also ruin my friendship with them too. What advice should i give her?
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Tell her to take it slow, serious relationships too fast can lead to heart break and bad things. Tell her if you don't think he's treating you right, there's plenty of other guys who would be happy to treat her the right way. Tell her easing into a strong and healthy bond with her boyfriend is the best way to do it: not a weak bond and unhealthy one. Tell her that you need to have patience and be understanding in a relationship. tell her if she or he's not ready, there's plenty of fish in the sea. I hope this helps!Good Luck!Rate me if you wat too!:)
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thanks, I agree that she should take it slow. She keeps wanting to get over him but then she won't allow herself to move on when there are other guys who show interest. all very complicated seeing as now she wants a relationship with him again! Cheers for the advice :)
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