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I'm just a girl going through the transition of a teenager to an adult and all that it entails.

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Hey
i dont get if im insecure or not.
I mean i am pretty confident @ talking to people
and just being myself really. But i feel so down sometimes. Like, i look around and see all these people that are so happy, and im not. and they're so proud of themselves over everyhing and im not. especially these; theyr all skinny, and pretty .. and im not. and everyones in a relationship..and im not. i get so sad about it! i feel like a loser!

Insecurity is something that all people go through in their life and what you're describing is something I'm sure we call all relate to.
It is a great sign that you can see your strengths, positive attributes about yourself. There are clearly some areas in your life that you could work on, so why not?
Despite how many people appear - especially in public - every one of them will have periods that you are describing just now. It's apart of growing up and finding yourself.
Maybe it's time to shake things up a little. Get yourself out with a good group of friends. Have a night on the town or make an effort to spend osme more time with the people you care about in life.
Also take up some hobbies like exercise which is a very social thing to do which also releases some awesome feel-good chemicals. Not to mention its a complete confidence lifter!
Everyone grows and matures at their own pace; having boyfriends, choosing career paths, finding out what they love in life.. it's cliche but in the end it comes down to experience and growth in your own time.
You'll find the things you're missing in life if you stop moping about them. Talk to someone you trust when youre down, do the things that make you happy, work on things youre passionate about. Youre young, live your life and look to the future. There are plenty times for a partner or popularity. Feel down? do something about it.
Believe it or not, if you take charge of your life, things will just fall into place. Get pro-active, stick with it and you'll be amazed at just how great things can get.

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