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18/f & 17/m; we've been together for almost two months; im in love with him even before we got together; we talked on and off; i knew he was guna be something hard to forget. we rarely agrue; we always joke around and have a good time; and our physical connection is amazing; well today he said he was working out, and he randomly starting having mixed emotions about him missing his ex marissa that he was with for a year and six months before we got together; she left him and hurt him both times they broke up; he said he knows its not going to work;
he's having mixed emotions, and said that he relaly loves me, but he thinks he rushed into a relatioshiop. He says he doens't know what he wants, but he knows if we break up, he isn't brekain up with me to get back with Marissa. He said in the morning we will see how things go, and to see if they go away after he sleeps on them;
I just don't know what to do; help? (link)
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Honestly, if i were you, id possibly prepare for the worse. Okay, your guy gets points for admitting that he has mixed emotions but i think it would have been easier on the both of your behalf's if he was up front from the beginning. Its sort of to late for that now, so you have to push forward. If you love this person more than words can express, try your best to work it out. You never know, he could be the one. But on the other hand, what if he never gets over this ex of his and hes stuck like that for god knows how long. So my advise to you is prepare for the possible worse IF the worse ever comes.
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Thanks so much for your time and effort! That morning when I picked him up; he said that his mixed emotions where gone. I don't even really think he had mixed emotions. I think he just felt guilty for calling her, after he knows he isn't suppose too.
He also called her and told her he didn't wanna hang out with her; than he made his decision that he wants to be with me; after we got out of school, he cried because he felt bad for hurting me, and he realized that he doesn't want to lose me, and that we can make it through anything sinec we have good communication and understanding.
So yeah. I love him omre than anything; and Im never giving up on him, unless we really can't work it out anymore. Thanks again!
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