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18f. My boyfriend and I decided after four months, mutually that we should be friends. Hes the same age. Things had been going good, but then things would feel off and we would not see eachother for a while and then be happy when we were together again. I felt we needed more interesting things to do when we were together and he just seemed content. One day he seemed real frustrated at me and so I had brought up the idea of being friends for awhile, he said he agreed. His one guy friend said to me that he probably didn't want to break up and that he just agreed, which makes me wonder if he still has feelings. I don't have any close friends/family to talk to or hang out with and so all I can think about is him. I feel as if I lost the only person I had going for me, but I also feel it was kind of the right thing to do. I hope to find another guy, but every nice guy seems taken. I am a friendly, approachable person. What to do?
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Anything worth having is wroth fighting for. You should try and remind yourself of this whenever you feel like all is lost. Yes, it does seem as if you guys cant kind mutual things that you both enjoy so maybe you two should sit down or have a discussion on the phone about potential places or things you two would enjoy together. Doing something like that is all Gain and no Loss. Fight the good fight as long as you feel like its wroth fighting. Other wise, cut your losses and dust yourself off and try again. as long as your alive, you'll have another chance to do whatever you want, whenever you want.
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