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I'm not going into detail because I would end up writing over 10000 words. Short story.. I really dislike my life. A lot is going on and i cry myself to sleep almost every night because i don't like my life right now. I'm a senior in high school and a girl. People are usually stressed about college and where they want to go etc. but I have that figured out. SO i guess thats alright since i already know my future. I'm just not happy...
I have a boyfriend. BEen going out for a few months and he's great. sometimes he gets on my nerves and irritates me and we have some fights. but other times he's there for me and he's the best boyfriend i've had. he really cares about me and whenever i'm in a bad mood he knows how to cheer me up. i dont get to seem him often outside of school because i'm involved with other activities and so is he. my bff is irritating me. lately we havent been on the same page and been fighting a lot about random crap. parents are getting more annoying. i'm 18 so i am pretty sure i have some freedom and independence but according to them i dont because i still live under their roof :( a lot of people i know get to do things like drive downtown and go to parties and hang out at peoples houses until midnight but my curfew is still at 9pm or even 8. they wont let me do certain things like go to a friends house they dont know. or sleepovers. or go to a concert. or go to a friends cabin. or drive outside of my town.. pretty much no life and living in a bubble.. to make things worse, i dont really have many friends. i mean, i have friends but they're the people who i say "hey whats up" to in the hallways and then dont talk much outside of school.
i just dont know what to do anymore. i really dont like my life and no matter what i do to change it.. i end up making things worse. i guess all im asking for is some advice on how to be happier and cheer me up? i dont have much time for myself so my options are limited. dont have a job which equals no money. parents keep me in a bubble life. i feel like i'm suffocating and just hate my life right now. please help. (link)
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So I am going thorugh a similar situation and I think your parents are just protected of you trust me , it happens and maybe if you I dont know how you act towards your parents , but if you act badly? thats why they proabably aren't letting you out or if your constantly making remarks of not being able to go out and stuff , because parents get more frustrated and dont let you do more , as it seems. I know i dont have many friends either and its okay AS long as you have ONE good friends girl that's all you need trust me , if youd ont have that ONE good friend then im sure soonr or later you will find him/heran dhave a great time , and for the job? why dont you go out and make a resume , dont sit there and say oh man i have no job.. no money.. no thing , well i suggest you get upa nd make a resume if youd ont already and go and pass it around and you'd be surprised you'd get phone calls back im sure you could get one ,and i know it migh tbe like your sufficating and it's not fair their justoverprotected of youa nd they dont want to lose you or anything bad to happen , and you know wat? if you and your boyfriend keep this up dont worry , im sure it can work just try to make time for eachother talk on the phone or call or stuff , and im sure because your 18 , theyknow you hit that stage a long time ago and their scared if you go out you'll just go lunatic , you never know , but don tbe offended by this , it just a matter of time , just a stage , soon enough you'll be out of the bubble life , just focus on whats most important now , do things you love to do
good luck!
- dont sufficate , just go out and do stuff!!
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thanks. and no its not because i act badly around them. they say i'm a really good kid and i believe it too. I haven't really done anything that was terrible and regretful in my life. but thank you. i'm hoping this stage will bypass soon haha.
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