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Q: so there is this guy lets call him nate. well he is pretty popular. he is the cutest guy in the school. I dont really talk to him. I talk to him in classes that i have with him but outside of school not really. well he seems to always be messing with me. I think i am overreacting but its kinda been on my mind. Like he always ask to put his papers in my binder before lunch so he doesnt have to go to his locker. He always ask me for some paper even when people right by him has it. I dont really think it means anything i just think he knows that im usually prepared. When we are having a discussion in class and then the teacher is like whose turn is it to discuss and he is like Stefani! Last year in english class we had alot of boys in our class so we had to split up in groups and a girl had to be in every group so he was like we got stefani!and then in another class he would mess with me and im like why are you always messing with me and he was like i always mess with me see i will mess with jordan. well im thinking im talking about a girl. because it seems like im the only girl he picks with and in every class he seem like he talks to me the most out of every girl. Im not saying he likes me because I doubt that he would because im not his type. and im pretty postive on this. Im just think he respects me more than most girls. but yet he seems to like laughing at me. like a guy today said something about me and he just laughs but if it was some other girl he would just sit there and look. so i dont really know. also he seems like he is slightly turning around to look back at me. like he will turn and stretch and just glance at me quite of few times. I dont really think its anything but yet it just seems a little suspicious. I have bad judgement with these kind of things. well what do you think?

I think he using your for easy A's in school, you're just like his "school girl" that will help him out. Trust me, i had a friend like this and he does that like "glances at you" or "laughs when people say stuff about you" because he wants to keep you around and make you feel special.
But he does it on purpose trust me, i knew a really good friend of mine who did this, just for the hell of it(he told me about it and did the same things), but didn't realize the girl would actually think something else! And about the group thing it just proves how he just wanted you in his group to have it all easy basically like saying "I got the smart girl!".
But i mean unless it's hurting you then just talk to him, but if i was you if he asked me to hold his papers i would be like "uh, why don't you?" and if he said please or something then yeah, but don't just let him use you like that so easily like don't be afraid to say "no." to him,cause it kinda seems like he is managing you pretty well, but you don't have to do anything you don't want to.
Hope i helped-SandyDandy(:

Rating: 4

true but he gets good grades also. like he is super smart also like he takes ap classes i dont so yeah i dont know but thanks

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