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Hi, I am 18f. I have a boyfriend the same age. We have been dating for three months, but I have known him for six. He is the first guy I have dated and he makes me feel like no other guy has made me feel. He is caring, honest, he listens, and he is just a nice guy. He lives almost an hour away though and even though he makes time to see me.. I have my doubts. I mean, he is good to me... but we don't have too much in common. We don't care for eachothers music (which gets annoying) and we do not have the same interests at all.. how can this work? Should we just be friends? I keep thinking I should stay with him cause he is so good to me, but then I wonder why I am with him if we don't have many common interests..?. Should I stay with him until I meet someone who I can relate to more? Or is that wrong? :/ Please answer all my questions, thanks

Okay well him being the first guy you have dated may be the problem too. You dont know how another guy would treat you because you've never been with one. So maybe he isnt treating you as well as you think. And there are a lot of people in relationships that have nothing in common. The music thing is a hard one, but when your in his car listen to his music. And when he's in your car listen to yours. If your not in your car often, ask him if you guys could listen to what you like for just a while. I think that you should stay with him, i dont know much about eiher of you but he sounds like he'd be a good boyfriend. If your comfortable with it talk to him about this and tell him how your feeling. Then you guys could work on it together as a couple!
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