Member Since: June 1, 2009
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Last Update: October 16, 2010
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Okay well I'm 17, and never had a boyfriend before. I've had guys ask me out a few times, but I always find a reason to say no. Just so happens, all of these guys were in my school, and around my age (or a year younger). But, when I go out sometimes and meet an older guy (20+), I just feel like I'm into them more. I even had an interest in some guy's who were in their early 30's (I know, too old for me). But, as of right now, until I turn 18, I don't think my mother would allow that, so I've never acted on anything. I just find guys my age to only care about sex, partying, beer, more sex, etc. And that turns me off, even if they are a nice guy. I'm not saying guy's in there 20's don't do all of that. Believe me, I know a lot who do. But, I noticed as they get older, that kind of stuff slows down. And I just find them to be nicer, more caring about personality not just looks, and just more caring than younger guys. A little information on me: I'm not the partying type, I rarely drink, never had sex, focused on school, and I'm mature for my age. Also, my parent's got divorced when I was 5; my dad and I don't get along and I'm not too fond of him, do you think that may be why I'm into older guys? Because my father and I have a bad relationship? I don't know if I'm really asking a question here...I'm just more so wondering what do you guys think? Thankyou. (link)
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I absolutely understand what you mean. I'm sixteen and basically in the same situation (school-oriented, divorced parents, never had a boyfriend, etc.) I've always been attracted to older guys as well, for all of the reasons you listed, and because they all are so much more experienced. I don't mean sexually or anything, just in general. That experience and different outlook on life is incredibly attractive to me. I don't feel much towards any guys my age or even a few years older. I totally get what you're saying about the whole "sex, beer, sex, and more beer" attitude. It seems really immature to me. I don't know if that helps at all (probably not...) I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in the least bit :)
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Thankyou! Your respone did make me feel better because I thought I was the only teenager with this problem! (:
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