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My best friend and I have been friends since third grade. I am a girl and he is a boy, we are both 16. I feel like I have a fairy tale friendship with this boy. We had our own little posse in third grade, it was him, me and two gay boys. We were always together in school. Then they two boys moved away leaving just me and this boy who has now grown to be one of my best guy friends. I can trust him with anything. I like him always being there because girls are catty and start drama all the time, being friends with this boy assures me that my secrets are actually safe with him. Every time I'm down, I text him and he would make me feel so much better, all the time. When I got into a fight with an ex friend of mine over her calling me fake, he said I wasn't at all and he hadn't a clue as to where she got that idea. My friend isn't the most confident person you'd meet so I always try to help him feel better whenever he's down and give him little ego boosts. He knows everything about me, bands I like, my favorite color, how I like to do my hair, my best friends name that goes to another school. We talk allll the time, whether it's in school or out of school, texting. We text all the time as well about nonsense. I would always text him with the intention of finding something out but then we would talk for four more hours after that about God knows what. Whenever I have trouble on homework or I need him to help me study for a test, I'll text him and he'll ask what question I'm on and he'll help me out so much that I understand everything for the rest of the chapter. My friend sings, he writes songs and plays them on his guitar.. he can't sing for me, though ): he sang in front of a crowd at a party, he wrote a song and sang it to the last girl he liked, yet he can't sing for me. Why is that? Every time I make a plan for him to come over and have a jam sesh, he bails.. reschedules.. then bails again. He also wears one of my silly bandz and I bring him in his favorite pack of crackers, and he eats them everyday at lunch. He goes to parties quite frequently, but when I go, he asks whose it is. A few days ago, I texted my friend that his buddy was complaining about how hungry he was and my friend texted me back asking "texting or in person?" Was he trying to subtly ask if I was hanging out with this boy?
Both of our moms think we are going to get married one day.
Everyone thinks we like each other because we're so close and can tell each other everything. I tell them that we are just best friends.
What do you think? And don't answer that I should talk to him about this because when I bring up that everyone thinks we like eachother, he just says "wow.."
Thanks!

Its kinda hard to understand what your asking here. If you need additional advice let me know. But from what im reading it looks like you both have a best friend and emotional connectivity. When I say emotional I mean as more than friends. The way how you give him expectations of singing songs to you like he did his ex, or the way you feel for this guy so strongly seems to go over the limit of best friend and more into an "emotional" state. The way I see it, you need to think to yourself what is it that you REALLY want from your BFF. Do you just wanna be friends all your life. Or do you think that you want a little more possibly someday. What is it that you really want, once you answer that, you know what to do.

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(Rating: 4) hey, thanks a lot (:
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