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So I am in a relationship with a man that I really treasure and don't want to lose. We met in January, and we started out as friends with benefits but quickly became best friends and fell hard for each other.
My concern is that I've had a bit of a past, ie I've slept around. I've changed now, and I'm not sure if my boyfriend knows about my past or the extent of it, we never talked about it before. My question is should I tell him? In case he doesn't know, I don't want guys from school telling him that I've slept around, and then him to hold it against me. I want to know that he accepts me regardless of my past. I don't want it to come up in the future of our relationship, I want him to know that yes I do come with a not so likable past. So do I tell him? Or just hope he already knows?
Thanks, 19/f (link)
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Well the past is the past and what ever you did back then you wernt with him so it shouldn't matter .we all have a past some good some bad and I bet you anything he's no angel either I'm sure he's slept around too but hey like I said that's the past we are looking at the present and the future so if he doesn't except your past he doesn't except you and as for telling him about your past that's strickly up to you .the past you can't hide it always finde its way back to the surface you can't hide it but you can learn and move on .I think you owe it to him to be honest and up front if you plan on being tgogether .it will make you not have to wory if and when he will find out I hope you take my advice and I wish you all the luck
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Thanks! Rated a 4 instead of 5 because of spelling and bad grammar.
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