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Well..A while back people were saying my bf was cheating on me with his friend named Jackie. He told me that she was very clingy..and she tried to hold on to him and everything. My boy friends not the type to cause any trouble..or to hurt anyones feelings, but one day she really got to him and he told her..raised his voice and said that "We can't do this, I have a girl friend and I don't like you in that way." She told him that she loved him..she than started to cry..he felt bad afterwords. Well all the rumors were saying other things..but my boyfriend says that your the best thing that ever happend to me..and there just trying there hardest to ruin it for me. >.< My boy friend doesnt have to best life..he lives with his gma, and she doesnt treat him right...we have to hide the fact that were dating from her..he fought a lot for me..he cares a lot for me..but should I still be worrying? I asked even jackie if anything went on and she said no..she has a bf. >.< So Should I just move on..I'm the type who worrys ..all the time..so? what do you think.. (link)
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I do not think that you should be worrying about it. Your boyfriend sounds like he is very dedicated to you and cares a lot about you. He did the right thing when he told Jackie his true feelings and refused to act romantically/sexually with her. He did it because of you! Does that not prove his dedication? He has done nothing wrong and he has given you no reason to lose trust in him. If anything, he has given you reason to trust him. If she has a boyfriend now and he has proved himself to you then you should not worry. =)
Rumors are nothing. How are they supposed to know what went on anyway? You should believe in your boyfriend and what he says to you. And if you do not feel like you can really trust your boyfriend, then maybe you should reconsider being with him...You can't have a good or faithful relationship with anyone if you do not trust them and they do not trust you.
Believe in the things that you KNOW and not in the things that you question. =)
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