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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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Advice
I'm an idiot
I've been seeing this girl, and we had sex couple nights ago but unprotected, and I came.
I pulled out straight away afterwards thinking of how stupid I am, and I told her what happened. Thankfully she takes half the blame on herself as well..
Anyway, this was about 2am.. and 12 hours later she went into town and got a pill.
I'm still quite nervous though, she doesn't track her periods so she won't now if she is late or not.
She said she will take a test anyway and I told her to get another pill tomorrow (that would be within the 72 hours still)
what can i do?
You had amazing advice already, I just wanted to add a little to it.
I am assuming the pill you are talking about is the Plan B emergency contraceptive. That's good, and it will significantly lower the chances of a pregnancy. There is also a chance that she wasn't ovulating at the time. You shouldn't automatically assume she is pregnant, because there is a pretty good chance that she isn't.
The best thing I can tell you to do is be there for her this following month. Support her, be there for her, and try not to get to upset until you know for sure. Tell her to take a pregnancy test in about 30 or so days. If it comes back negative, and she still hasn't started in a couple more weeks, tell her to take another one.
Learn from this situation. If you are going to continue seeing this girl, be sure you use condoms everytime, and talk to her about going on the birth control pill.
Good luck!
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(Rating: 5) That was AWESOME advice! I hope you help me on my new question too! Sorry took so long.