Name is Megan, I'm 20 years old. I've gone through a lot in my life, and got through so much on my own. It sucked, and I wish I had someone to go to for advice. I like to help others who are in need of advice. I don't think anyone should ever feel alone. I hope to help some of you with the answer's I've giving. I try my hardest.
Gender: Female
Occupation: Student.
Age: 20
Member Since: May 2, 2010
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I really messed up and had a one night stand with a guy who got me pregnant. We didn't talk at all after we had sex until I realized I was pregnant. When I told him, his first reaction was "we can't do this I'll pay for an abortion". Well, no way I was getting an abortion. So now, things are so annoying with him. His girlfriend messaged me on facebook and was freaking out on me which I don't feel like dealing with, he freaks out on me for everything I do, like if I go on a date he'll freak out, if I say I'm going to a different state for vacation or like to stay for a little while he freaks out. He's getting on my nerves so much I'm ready to just tell him the baby isn't his so he'll leave me alone! What do I do? (link)
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For one, block him and his girlfriend on any social sites. How old are you? If you think he is getting way out of hand, go get a personal protection order. It will stop him for contacting you at all. EVEN if you have his child. You don't HAVE to have him in the babys life. When the baby is born, do NOT put his last name on the birth certificate. List the farther unknown. If he wants to take you to court then fine. It will take along time, and it'll be his money hes going to waste, because he has to pay for all the court fees, plus DNA, and even in the long run, you'll come out with full custody, plus getting child support from him. IF it comes down to court, then explain to the judge how he is acting, more than likely they will grant him reasonable visitation, meaning only when YOU say is a good time, and he don't even have to take the child by hisself you or someone in your family or friend can be with him. He does NOT control you, remember that, even if you are having his child, that don't mean anything. I've been through this all, and I know how hard it is, but it'll be okay. Just stay strong.
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I'm 19. Thanks so much for your advice!
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