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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania

>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

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This is probably going to be long.. Just a fair warning.

Yesterday morning I'm kinda early for school (i'm usually late to school) and I find that there is shit smeared over the drivers side of the windshield, I call my mom and she got a hose and cleared it off, and there were pancakes all over my car. I wanted to wake my father and call the cops but she had most of it off already. (Please don't say, "Should've called the cops". The neighborhood I live in is very country and very quiet, nothing happens. I get to school and tell my best friend. Later in the day I find out it was her boyfriend, I'm furious now. He treats me like total crap and my best friend let's him do it. She told me the vandalism was just a joke and that I'm over-reacting. This is getting tooo serious now, we got into a fight before because I told her that he flirts with me and is really mean to me. (His texts say stuff like "Heyyyy sexyy" "Let's Fuck" "Let's go do stuff. =P") I told him to stop. I told her about it. I don't reply to his texts, and I don't speak to him because I don't want this drama. I think the vandalism is too far. What is your opinion on the matter? What would you have done?

Hello :)

First off, who the hell does this guy think he is? Don't take offense to the following comments I am going to state. Your friend is naive for letting him treat you like crap and for not standing up for herself about the flirty texts he sends you.

Unfortunately, it sounds like your friend is just infatuated with this guy, making her a little reluctant to do what she should. I hope she soon learns some guys are just not worth losing a friend over. I also hope she realizes not every guy is as faithful as he may seem.

Have you showed her these texts? I would suggest doing so if you haven't...

If I were you, I would have given my friend a little tough love, told her that she needs to realize how much of a immature scumbag this guy is, and that she can do better. If a guy will play pranks on someone he isn't close to, and will disrespect you, what makes her think he won't do the same to her?

I also would have told this guy to screw off. Excuse my language but guys like this piss me off. Stand your ground. Tell him to stay away from you and your property, or else, you won't hesitate to call the cops on him for harassment.

Good luck!

Uniq :)

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(Rating: 5) Thank, you soo much! Somebody on my page!! =] All the stuff you said even in the harsh language, I have alreay said to both him and her. It's a relief to know that I am right in thinking this is wrong and disrespectful.
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