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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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Omg...I let out a pretty big one WHILE we were intimate...to be really specific...he was right by it when it happened. Obviously after that happened, he laughed and so did I...but it did kind of mess up the mood and he just sat up and started watching tv. He randomly made fun of me throughout the day, but I just got really butthurt (no pun intended). I became really self conscious..thinking that I just ruined our sex life and that he will forever be turned off and I ruined his fantasy for me. I used to be so confident in the bedroom and this just TOTALLY messed it up for me. It feels like I'm making it a bigger deal than it is...but that's just the way I feel. Obviously, he got turned off because he didnt continue and kept making fun of me. Gawd...any feedback?
If it ruined his opinion of you then he wouldn't have joked about it throughout the day. If he was honestly bothered, he probably would have came up with an excuse to leave and never mention it again.
The fact he is joking about it makes me think that although it was probably awkward for both of you, it's probably bothering you more than him. He is trying to laugh it off. Express your embarrassment, and then forget about it. This kind of thing happens, probably more than you think. If you guys are close and comfortable with each other, then this shouldn't be bothering you too much.
He is a guy. Trust me; unless it's on your part, your sex life is going to be just fine. I am sure he will continue wanting to have sex. He's a man.
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