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I like this kid and I feel like he likes me but I've never had a boyfriend so I could be wrong. When I walked in the cafeteria the first few weeks of the second quarter he looked at me until I walked to my table which was behind him, so I would break the stare. I feel like he looks at me a lot when he sees me. My friend and I stay after to work on a project for a class we have together and he would come into the library and she said he was looking at me the whole time but I don't know if he was or not because he was clear across the Library. He's supposedly a very outgoing guy, he has a lot of friends that are girls. Do you think he's kinda liking me or at least thinking I'm attractive? If you think so why won't he talk to me if he's so outgoing? Thanks!

From what you've said, it seems like he's somehow attracted to you, or has some slight feelings towards you. He may be interseted in you :]

Most likely, the reason he's not talking to you is because he is attracted to you. Girls do this too; you might have once or twice. We know the feeling- you see him, your throat goes dry. Your heart pumps faster and your head spins. This might be why he just stares at you. He can't bring himself to walk over and say hi; he's to shy towards you.

By the way, one way you can figure out if he really does like you is to look at him when he stares at you. Does he break into a shy smile and turn away, or nervously turn the other way, only to look back later? If so...there's a chance :]

Hope I helped!

-M:]

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