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Q: 17/f i'm going to this amusement park with my friends & family for the weekend. my one friend, has an eating disorder, and was just put into the hospital over the weekend, but she said she'd be out by the time to go she thinks, the problem is, I don't really feel its a good idea for her to come now. first of all, we plan on swimming, and i don't want anyone giving her dirty looks or anything for how skinny she is. (weighs 70 pounds, you can see her all her bones..) also, my parents don't feel comfortable with her coming, because they are afraid she won't eat or whatever & don't want the responsibility. how do i uninvite her? i don't really want to tell her my reasons, i just need a good excuse!
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I agree with the other columnist about the fact that uninviting her will really aid her eating disorder and not help it in anyway. I would also feel really badly if I were your friend because having an eating disorder is hard enough without having not-so-supportive friends.
Regardless of my opinion, I'll answer your question. I think that the best way to do it is to say that your parents are being really annoying and decided at the last minute to cap the number of friends that you could invite and since you didn't know for a fact whether she would be out of the hospital or well enough to go, you decided to uninvite her instead of someone who you knew would definitely be able to attend.
I wish you and your friend the best.
Have a great time at the amusement park! :)
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Thanks the main reason I'm univiring her is because people make fun of her in school about how skinny she is.. I don't think a bunch of random teenage boys will be any more suportive.. Especially when she's in a bathing suit. Obviously I would want her to come, I just don't think it's in her best interest.
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Gender: Female Occupation: Student Age: 16 Member Since: November 27, 2008 Answers: 59 Last Update: July 21, 2011 Visitors: 4247
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