Hey everyone, I have been giving advice on this site since I was 16 and have always been honest with the askee. I just feel that there is no point in lying as I would hate to be lied too and thats why I always tell it like it is. I also feel that when people lie - it causes more hurt than good. Anyone after honest advice - feel free to send me a question!!
Also if you EVER need additional advice just send me an email and I will get back to you :)
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It's kind of a long story. I started dating this guy. Still had a crush on another guy. This other guy is my friend. Still talk to him..and I still like him. He just turned 18. My boyfriend is 16. Just extra info.
So I'm kinda confused what to do because I love my boyfriend. But you know how it is, you're attracted to other people. I found out my boyfriend liked another girl too. We ended up talking about it. Fixed it. And its fine. But it still kills me.
This other guy, we've been friends for about 2 years. Friends with his sister, so I mean, we're pretty close. I know he's into me and all that. We wouldn't really do anything about it anyway though. So I'm not planning on leaving my boyfriend for him. Cause I'm not planning to get with this guy. He's 18 and I'm 15, almost 16. The thing that gets to me though is that he compliments me alot and flirts and is a pretty good friend. My boyfriend is better though. I don't want to leave him at all..I just don't know what to do.
I don't know what is the best to do in this situation. I mean, I know alot of people have dealt with this before. Just when it happens to you, you get really confused. Maybe you can see it from a different view and give me some advice here.
If you don't mind me inboxing anyone let me know. Cause I think I'm gonna need someone to help me with this. Thanks so much! (link)
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Hey huni,
Well you've answered your own question lol your happy with your boyfriend so you stay with him and keep your friend who you also like and if things do (hopefully not) break down with your bf then at least you have your friend 2 fall back on. He will make you feel better when your down and maybe one day in the future you guys will get together!
About your bf liking another girl - like you say when your with someone you can b attracted 2 others its human nature!
But when you finally find the one guy for ever (it may b mr 18 or mr 16) then eventually he wont b able to think of another girl without comparing how much better you r than them - like you have done with mr 16 and mr18!!
You can message me if you want - if you like my advice that is!
Good luck hun!
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