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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania

>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

>> Taken since 11.25.07

>> Have been on this site since I was in 7th grade. You do the math lol

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There is a boy. Like 90% of these questions start. He is in my gym class. He's adorably cute but unadorably shy haha. Anyway, like I said, I have gym with him but we are in different squads so basically, I never see him. So, my friend has been talking to him about me and she's been telling me the things he says. Some of the things that come to my mind right now are "I will most definitely be on facebook to talk to her" "I think she's funny, she's to shy to talk to me" or my friend told him today to talk to me when I come down the steps before gym (everyone chills outside the locker rooms before we change) I walked down the stairs, she called his name and he didn't come over but he said he would. So, she was in the gym with him while I was down for my music lesson and she said "why didn't you say anything to her? you said you would." and he said "I don't know" and she said "well, are you nervous?" and he said "..yea kinda" but he knows I like him so it would be so easy for him to talk to me because he knows I won't be a snob to him. So, why is he acting like this? Is he not diggin me? I thought from the things he was saying that he was kinda into me, am I wrong? Thanks.

Hey :)

He probably does like you. Or maybe he doesn't. But hypothetically, if he does like you, cut him some slack, he's a human being just like you. Yes, guys can be shy, nervous, and even embarrassed to talk to girls, simply because they might not know what to say, or are worried about how you will react. Put yourself in his shoes for a bit. I'm pretty sure you'd be a bit hesitant as well to go up to yourself and randomly start a conversation lol. Maybe YOU should try and start a convo as a matter of fact. Guys kinda like when girls make the first move, there's nothing wrong with it. So maybe you should stop getting your friend to talk to him for you, and start talking to him yourself :) Good luck!!

Uniq

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(Rating: 5) haha I never see him! that's why she does it but I messaged him on facebook and I feel like that plus talking to him will be annoying to him.
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