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21/f
I have what is akin to a high school crush on this guy. I hadn't seen him in about 4 months, but ran into him the other day at college. We talked and all like old times for an hour. Now the weird thing is, the way I know him is he is a friend of my ex.
My ex and I broke up 4 months ago and it was a nasty breakup. We were together for 3 months. When I ran into this guy the other day, he didn't really talk much about my ex except to say he was a real asshole for what he did to me and he barely sees him anymore.
When I was with my ex, this guy was always way nicer to me and would compliment me and pay attention to me. He would always say weird things like how I was better than his ex gf (who I never met) and how cool I was. I never would've done anything before but now that we're both single, I feel I've got my chance.
However, I'm not sure how he feels about me. So my questions are:
1) Do you think he would be totally opposed to going out with me because he met me through my ex? I know they aren't really friends anymore but some people might feel weird.
2) I'm not very good at making a move and like I said the other day was the first time I've seen this guy in months. If I see him again, what should I do?
Please help.. I'm going crazy.. can't stop thinking about him!
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I think he'd want to try things out with you. What I think about this is that he's glad that you and your ex broke up so now he has his chance? Well, thats what I think.
And I'm not good at making moves either, so what i would do is to invite him out to a club/bar whatever and just dance with him and see where things go and see if he tries making a move on you.
Just be really flirty and be yourself. :)
Good luck!
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