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k well my boy friend has been very distant with me and it was really hurting me.i talked to him about it and it would only get us into arguements.
about 5days ago i just had enough and told him we should go on a break and the thing now is that hes disapeared.he wont answer my calls he wont txt me back hes blocked me on msn.he hasnt even told me its over..he just ran off without a word.this whole time i thought we were on a break to see what he wanted.
anyway its obvious he doesngt want me.its just that i feel like iv been used.itd be easier if he actually used his words and dumped me instead of disapearing without a sound.
i just wanted to see what you all thought and see if anyone had some tips on getting over him since iv been crying all night last night.i cant pain the pain go away.i know i need time and need to keep myself busy bla bla but i just need some other tips to stop feeling so hurt
thank youu for the time
I know how you feel. I guess he got what he wanted though without having to actually break up with you. I'm sure he was too much of a wuss to actually say the words to you.
Getting over exes takes time and a lot of tears, but you'll make it through. Hang out with your friends, trust me it'll make you feel better. Especially if you have a best friend who really cares about you. Go out to eat, movies, laser tag, go karts, anything fun :). Busy yourself, do things you've never done before. Try photography, jewelry making, anything. Go to a Michael's or some type of craft store and just buy things. You could buy paint brushes, paint, and a little jewelry box. It really does help. And honestly, if your ex did that to you, he's not even worth thinking about. Just remember that it takes time, you won't just be over it within a week. We all heal at our own pace.
Lastly, if the jerk tries to come back into your life weeks or months from now, DON'T let him back in. It never ends well as much as you miss him and how he made you feel; there are always other guys who can make you feel even better and who will treat you with respect. Guys are repetitive, if they do it once, they're doomed to repeat what they've done.
Good luck girl
(Rating: 5) that was soo helpful!