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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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hey there is a couple of girls in my school that dont like me.. i seriously dont know why,today i whent with my friend to get a lunch and they were just starring at me..but i didnt stare at them back..i pretended i didnt see them ...it really bothers me when people dont like me because i never done anything bad to them ,and this girl when i pass by her she stares at me,,and no i dont have the guts to go up to her and confront er about this because i know this would just start a fight and am not up for this..so can you please tell me what to do ? thannks
Girls are girls. They are mean, catty, and bitchy. We just have to learn to deal with it. You have three options.
The first is my favorite. It's what I always do when I am in the situation; If someone is staring at you, stare back. Eventually they will get so uncomfortable at the situation that they look away. It's quite hilarious actually :)
The second option you have is to ignore them. Let them stare, let them do whatever they want. If it doesn't bother you, they will eventually give it a rest.
You obviously don't want to do the third, but it doesn't have to result in a fight. Be mature about the situation, and next time you catch them staring walk over to them, sit down and say hey. Tell them you are getting a bad vibe and want to know if you have offended them in some kind of way. If they say yes, deal with the situation and try to resolve it. If they say no, say something along the lines of, "That's cool. I see you glancing my way a lot, so anytime you want to talk feel free :)" Say it seriously, say it like a smart ass. Either way they will shut up from then on out.
Good luck :)
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