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i notice that ever time when my boyfriend cries really hard, he ends up getting asthma attack. and i don't mean those regular asthma attacks, i mean he went to the doctor and they said to stay away from whatever makes him cry.. cause nothing can't stop those type of asthma attacks. so basically, he won't breathe until he dies.. and that gets me really nervous. i feel like i'm the one causing it, cause he cries because of me. i feel like i push things too far or something when i'm angry, and i've been trying to control that. but when i'm angry nothing really runs through my mind besides negative things, and it just gets me more upset and i just end up speaking my mind. but he says it's not because of that, just that he always thinks that i don't want to be with him anymore, since ever little thing he does he thinks he gets me upset when i don't. it just gets me nervous, because i know if he stays with me.. he would get an asthma attack, if i don't.. he'll get an asthma attack. what can i do? he told me to stay with him and he'll try to control his crying, cause that's the one thing he will be able to control and that he promises that as long as i'm breathing, he'll breathe. but i still feel like it's partially my fault that it's like this, i don't want to cause anybody's death. i care about his health, and now i'm trying really hard to not push it really far. but either way, i'm stuck in the middle.. because there are sometimes i think that we shouldn't be together, cause sometimes it's not just working out. but i'm worried, asthma attack.. and if i stay... asthma attack. part of me wants to stay cause i do care for him and i still really like him. but part of me wants to leave because i don't wanna feel like i'm causing the pain and sometimes it just gets tiring at times. what should i do? (link)
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what do you mean, make sure i'm near a hospital?
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