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I have the worst cramps. The type that will make me miss school, scream in pain, throw things, throw up, have cold sweats, and physically unable to walk. I think birth control pills are the answer but my mom says I cant use them. Even though she is a nurse she thinks that they are not healthy and does not like the "stigma" attached. I do not have sex or have a boyfriend so I am not using it for birth purposes but it is a plus. I really just want to not regret being female every month. I cant miss anymore school; i have 5 AP classes to handle.
I have not been to a gynecologist yet because of my mom. I am 17 years old is there a way to get these pills myself or any convincing ideas. (link)
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Go to a Planned Parenthood.
In most states, if you're over 16 and it's not an abortion or surgical issue, the PP isn't going to call your parentals or anything.
I recommend you ask for Yaz, by the way.
You'll need to be able to pay for the appointment and the birth control yourself.
When you find out if the BC is going to actually help you, that's when you should address it to your mother again. If she can, physically, see that you're not screaming in pain and are better, as a result of your BC, then she can't really ban you from using it, especially as a nurse.
I know it seems sneaky and conniving... and it is, but sometimes that is the best way to approach things like that.
Also, when you sit down with your mother, take her hand, look into her eyes and explain that the BC is soley for medical purposes and assure her that it's not because you're a trampy ho that's turning tricks behing the football field or something. You need sincerity so that she doesn't freak the eff out.
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Rating: 5
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I like the trampy ho part but thanx I may do that.
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