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I need advice on how to subtly kick things up a notch in my relationship with a professor. I want to let things evolve naturally, but suddenly I feel like the air between us is just charged. I'm fairly certain that he feels the same way towards me and I know him well enough outside of class to make this judgment. I want to give him clear signals that I'm into him but also want to be subtle - I want him to take the lead and know that he's not overstepping his bounds. What can I do/say that would let him know?

Also, I'm not looking to 'hook up with him' - I want an actual relationship. Please note that there's nothing unethical in this - I won't have him for any more classes and there's no conflict of interests or university policies against it.

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Wowwwww! You're quite bold. You professor could lose his job for this kind of behavior. Why don't you wait until you're not in his class and treat him like a normal person? You know, shoot him an e-mail or something.

One of my professors got in a LOT of trouble for this sort of thing with a grad student...


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Thanks, but I know. I don't have him for a class and do treat him like a normal person - and we talk much more than by email.




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