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Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 22
Member Since: November 23, 2009
Answers: 5
Last Update: November 23, 2009
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okay so l recently split with my on and off boyfriend for over a year. he's my first love and so he's the only one l've ever had sex with. when he had an erection though, his penis would bend to the side, not a whole lot but it was a noticable amount. l have my period now and l've been realizing that when l put the tampon in, it hurts until its almost all the way in and i feel it like sort of pop in not straight but kind of crooked. is it possible that by having sex with him could have bent me inside? lf so, then could it be fixed by sex with another man who's not bent. lf someone could help me out l'd really appreciate it. thanks (link)
Most guys end up having a little bit of a tilt when they have an erection. It can even change directions. Much of that has to do with the position that their penis was in before it became erect, i.e., how he "tucks" it.

I really doubt that this had any effect on your vagina. Vaginas conform during the time you are having sex to the guy's penis, but they aren't open holes. They are highly elastic, and its unlikely that you would hold a shape.

Its actually perfectly natural to have tampons go in at an angle. It's probably painful to a tampon in at first because you aren't accounting for that angle, whether its forwards, backwards, or tilted to the side.

Also, try downsizing the size of the tampons you are using, or get ones with a plastic applicator. Those should slide in much easier (=painfree). Or try pads.

If you notice that it is painful to have intercourse, perhaps you should see a gynecologist. If you are sexually active, this is a good idea anyways! If you don't know where to go, planned parenthood is usually a good place to start, since most clinics accept people of any age.


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thank you, you are very insightful and l appreciate it




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