Hey everyone, I have been giving advice on this site since I was 16 and have always been honest with the askee. I just feel that there is no point in lying as I would hate to be lied too and thats why I always tell it like it is. I also feel that when people lie - it causes more hurt than good. Anyone after honest advice - feel free to send me a question!!
Also if you EVER need additional advice just send me an email and I will get back to you :)
Dxxxxxxx
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Just to warn you guys, this is gonna be long.
15/f
On tuesday me and my boyfriend broke up. On tuesday night we were emailing eachother and he told me that i wasn't listening to him and that the point of the convorsation was not to break up, but to tell me he didn't think we were in love yet. I know this is not true because the first thing he said was 'i know this might come as a suprise to you, but i don't see us going far in a relationship'. Sounds like a breakup to me. He told me i was the most amazing thing and that he wanted another chance. i told him i didn't know and that i'd talk to him at school on wednesday. Meanwhile i was emailing a few of his friends and they told me that he broke up with me because he wanted to ask this girl paige out. Apparently he tried some wierd scheme to make paige breakup with her boyfriend but it backfired and thats why he came back to me. So then wednesday came around and he was waiting by my locker to talk. i said hey but then didn't say anything immediately. He stood there for no more than 20 seconds while i put my bag in my locker and he said 'well i guess your too any to talk so i guess i'll just leave you alone'. Then he didn't talk to me for the rest of the day. Now his friends are calling me and telling me there are several people he wants to ask out. But he keeps emailing me saying that he really cares about me and that they're lying. He says he only wants me and would never lie. Today is thursday and i was sick today and can't go back to school until monday. I'm scared he really is going to ask out these girls while im not around. I want him back to but i don't wanna be to late. I also don't know if i should take him back. I trust him, but i don't think so many people would lie about something. Anyone have any ideas?
XXXOOO,
Lonely_girl (link)
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Hey honey,
I am so sorry that you are in such a crappy situation!
But I think that you know that you should just let him go, he is obviously not worth your attention or even worth your thoughts!
He thinks about other girls and you know that, my friend recently went through the same thing and she realised that she needed to just let him go and although it was a little hard she felt better for it!
Guys that play the field like to have someone there that's comfy and that's all that you'd be sorry if that's harsh but you don't need that!
Love will happen you just have to get rid of him, get past the hurt and then you will realise that this guy was so not the guy for you and when you do finally find the right guy he wont even think of another girl because he will have you and these guys do exist!
Also your friends must be really awesome to tell you what he has been saying and hanging with them will get you past all this crappiness and on to MR RIGHT!!
If you hate this advice then try and take yourself out of the situation and imagine that its one of your friends that is going through this and ask yourself what you would tell them to do?
Hope I helped!!
Good Luck!!
Dxxxxxxxx
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Thanks alot. it'll be hard but i think i gotts let him go
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