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Member Since: October 4, 2009
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Last Update: October 5, 2009
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I am 16 female, my bf is 18. So here's the thing, I'm very shy! Not that confident in my "self look," I'm skinny skinny but I'm also not a huge whale, no offense to anyone. I'm a 34C cup, I get embarrassed when he touches me sexually, and very shy too. But I do like it, it's just when he tells me to tell him what I want or like, it makes me get all shy and blah!!! I hate it, on the phone when we talk, he turns me on and says things he'd be doing to me, or wants to do, then when I'm supposed to I get shy or embarrassed and I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO SAY!!!! It really sucks, I've always been more of a pleaser then get pleased, and I like to act not talk about acting. Has anyone lese had this problem? Is it normal? Am I hopeless, will I ever get over this? Him and I have been together for 9 months now, we started fooling around on our 5 month together. What should I do?! :( (link)
Been there and done that. I'm 16 and when my boyfriend wanted to mess around. I was like Holy Crap. I had no idea what to do. I was so shy. I had no idea what to say to him. When we first started having phone sex I was shy then as well. I didn't know what to say to him and I would just get toungue tied and everything. The first time I messed around it took him like ten minutes to get me to finally go on with it. He asked me what I wanted him to or what I liked, and because I had no idead what to say to him, I just told him that do whatever you want to and I'll tell you what I like. Now that he know's what I like done to me, he does whatever. And it is very normal and you will eventually get over...
Hope this helped..


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Thank you very much, nice to see I'm not the only one to ge freaked out about this. :)




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