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well, we spent all day yesterday because it was a performance night so we had to be together all day with the band. i didnt see my band for a total of 4 hours yesterday which is okay because i like our conductor. now, on to why i am asking for advice. i think he likes me back but im not sure because we dont talk but every time i look at him on the podium he is watching me. also we needed to add something really quick and we didnt know what we were doing so he was in charge, because he is the drum major. as he was giving direction he would walk up in line next to my section and give direction, i just thought that was weird because my section is in the front of the line, i though he would have went to the middle to tell us what to do. so our band director told him to take the front of the line in and as he was he, the boy i like, put his hand on my shoulder and directed us where to go. he also, always tenses his shoulders and walks perfectly when he marches by me. i know that isnt many things but everybody in my band said we would look cute together we just run in to different social circles. so, does he like me? if so, why doesnt he talk to me? he doesnt shut up around anyone else in the band. any advice is appreciated!! (link)
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I believe he does, guys often act in such a way, depending on their personality. I do think however that he does fancy you, he may just be too shy or unnerved to ask you out.
It depends what you mean by different social circles, because if he truly believes in social status he may not ask you out. However if he doesn't believe in that much then I'm sure it will be okay and it may take time but he will eventually ask you.
If he doesn't then don't be afraid to ask him, or at least hint that you want to go out, or you fancy him, it will make all the difference. He may be afraid that you don't feel the same way, then he may not want to ask you, and be put down. Don't be scared, you'll never know, unless you ask.
good luck.
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