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I fell in love with this guy when I was 13 and am still in love, now this may have been 2 months ago or 7 years ago, or actually anywhere in the between, lol~ I don't know if I will ever get over him.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now 9 on October 14th. He's 18 and I'm 16, we clicked the instant we met, only thing was he was a bit of a flirt. I've know him for about two years now, we'd flirt around and what not but I never took him seriously because of all the other females that were after him. He said he'd give up his flirtatious ways if I agreed to be his girlfriend. So I did, I liked him a great deal.
We "fell in love," or I did atleast. Everything was going well, we ended up having sex 5 months after we started going out, I sortah regret it he was my first.
Anyways, we've been having small problems. Well I think he thinks everything's ok, but he doesn't call me much. I'm always the one to call, usually.
At night, after 9 when he has free minutes. :/
Anyways, sometimes he acts as if I bore him, or he doesn't like me or love me...he gets annoyed and irritated with me for no apparent reason.
I want to know, does anyone think he's with me just 'cause of sex?
I mean he lives in chicago and I live in Aurora, he sees me once a week or so, we talk every night usually.
When we're together he seems to push onto sex fairly quickly.
I don't know what to do most of the time, I want to make him happy so I go through with it most of the time, we use protection of course.
But afterward I sortah feel sad, I feel kindda upset with myself, not sure why. Has this happened to anyone else?
I kinda get the feeling that's all he wants, but I do think he loves me, or did atleast at one point, but lately I been feeling as if he only likes the sex.
What should I do?
Am I wasting my time?
I love him alot, but (is this wrong?) love me more, and I've been hurt many times before and don't want to get hurt in the end.
He began to change since he recently started college...I don't know, could he be stressed?
Any help would be useful thanks. :T (link)
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I think this all depends on the intensity that YOU love him, how much you want to go thru to make this right...
Well not putting this lightly but a girls instinct, you know gut-feeling is usually right, If you feel it's just the sex, and based on the info you've given, maybe you're right.
Or maybe it's a completely different situation altogether and he's having trouble with school or at home and sex is the distraction? (was he a virgin when you guys....??)
In any case the only way you're gonna get an answer is to talk with him. Positive or negetive, you're going to feel relieved whether you find a guy who loves you more than the world itself, or he's that guy.
No one wants to get hurt but if it's not right for you then maybe it's the best thing.
If he's stressed,Try to make him laugh. Make yourself the center of his world, that he feels nothing could ruin the relationship you guys have.
Help him as much as you can, be the supportive girlfriend....
If he's just being a jerk, I hate to say this but dump him. You deserve better than that!
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Rating: 5
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No he wasn't a virgin.
Thanks, I'll talk to him, he's coming tomorrow so I'll see what's up. Thank you so much once again.
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