Member Since: September 20, 2009
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Last Update: June 18, 2010
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okay so i like this kid for some time (2 years, i think it might actually be love but i cant admit it). last year we were really close and i still liked him and i am positive he liked me, he would sit with me at my lunch table when he had soo many other friends at another table, and we would just only talk to eachother. i remember how people would come up to us and be like "are you two dating?. you two look really cute together!".. and jokingly he would say "yes"..haha i was eating icecream once and i couldnt finish it so he took it and helped me finish it, and one time this kid was flirting with me and my friend was like "you should totally date, right dan?" (his name is dan). and the kid that was flirting with me was one of dans good friends. so dan says "no, no she shouldn't"..i just looked at him and he didnt even stare at me..but when he said it i have never seen him so serious in my life. and theres this ex that always bothers him and she always talks to him and i get sad cuz she never lets me talk and he just randomly cuts her off to ask me a random question. one time i fell asleep in his arms and i looked up while he was holding me and we had eye contact for the longest time and i kept asking myself "should i kiss him?..should i?" but i looked down because i just felt so embarassed..so, haha lost track in the good times. i kept waiting for him to be like "lets hangout" or something but he never did. so i had doubts that he didnt like me. so this guy asked me out and i did..just because i felt sadand lonely. after that me and dan were never close as we used to be. we would still talk and stuff but not like long one on one conversations. and when i broke up with my boyfriend after a couple of weeks i wanted to rebuild our friendship but it has always stayed the same. so now i decided that i need to get over him by avoiding him. i was doing a good job but one day we were face to face and he opens his arms for a hug. and that was it. i felt like crying and i never wanted to let go. i know we are perfect for eachother, i have never been sure in my life. so now i messaged him asking him "what happened?..we never talk anymore like we used to..we used to be close friends.."..i know he might have gotten over me. but is it possible that some one can like you again? please help. i am in pain. and i know its stupid. i always make fun of the girls that cry over girls...now i am one of them (link)
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I know how you feel its the same thing between me and my friend. If you really like/love him you should talk to him face to face explaining how you feel even if your scared to or not. Also spend lots of time with him but not too much you dont want to smuther him. And if you want try an convince him to ask you out or do something simple like go for a walk to be alone. You cant refuse what your heart wants but be careful a relationship can damage destroy a friendship
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well its almost been a year since we were really close, and even if he did like me, i am sure he got over me now, since its been awhile, so i dont want to just go up to him and say "i have feelings for you"..because i know he will say he doesnt feel the same way...so i am trying to get close to him again first and see if later i can reveal my feelings to him. but i just sent him a message asking "what happened? we used to be close friends and now we barely talk."..and he replies "honestly i dont know"..so i respond "am i right?...we were closer.."..and he says "yeah well this has happened to some of my friends i think so your not the only one."..so i tell him "oh i see, i was just wondering because i was thinking of last year...and i miss it"..and its been two days and he hasnt replied..i know he seen it because he replies to his friends but he hasnt replied to mine..and i havent spoken to him since i wrote that to him because it hurts to see him and i just want to cry when i am talking to him. i just shake...so everytime i see him i dont know if i should go up and talk to him or just say nothing..so i just walk past him without looking at him because i dont know what to do..:(
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