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Q: heyyyy!
alrighty soo
for the past few weeks i have been doing very good as far as not texting bob. now let me tell you, there were a lot of times i wanted to text him, but i didn't! i was very proud of myself haha. so i dont THINK i like him anymore, but yet i seem to think about him like everyday... i don't know what's going on with that. so! yesterday around eight p.m. which is SOOOOO weird because he NEVERRRR texts me first. and he didn't even want anything. we went back on forth on what to talk about and im all like pick somethinggggg. and he finally goes why me? and i go because i end up talking about stupid stuff and he goes so. wow hes dumbbb. but then he was like: i just thought of when we first met. (((now that night was sooooo crazy, and in four days, it will be eleven months ago... i know its sad that i still remember but oh well))) and i was like oh...uh... do you remember like all of it? and he goes ya i do. OH MAN! thats... WOW. and i was like talk about awkward and he goes ya forreals you are. WTFF i was like wtf you just said i was awkward and he goes yes. and i go you dont just tell somebody their awkward. i could tell you what you are, but i'm not gonna do that. (AND I GO SOO MAD) and then he was like im sorry i didnt mean to be mean and then i go whatever that night was not my fault thats all i have to say. and he goes what night? :( (hes obviously so stupid) and i go that night we met and he goes ok? and i go you make me so mad sometimes. and he goes I'm sorry I don't mean to and I already know you don't like me anymore. and i go ha really? and when did i say that? and he goes I just think that. and i go uh why? and he goes idk you just don't seem like it? and i go Well then i already know you don't like me anymore. (which i don't, i was just retaliating.) and he goes why? and i go i dont know am i right? and he goes i dont know am i? and i go i dont know but am i right? and he goes idk!?? so basically i think he know, but he just doesn't wanna tell me, before i tell him. ??? i don't know!!!!!!! ugh we texted for like four hours and then i said i was going ot sleep and he didnt text back.

weirdddddddd!
eh, help me out?
thanks a ton.
Sorry for taking long! I started school recently :( haha.

That's good that you stopped texting! That works on some guys (obviously this guy) because they hate being ignored to a point.. when you do it, they think about you a lot and end up texting you to see what's up/why you haven't texted.

Okayy well, he obviously does want you to say it first..don't know why though. With guys, they feel if they let any type of emotion out..their weak. Which is of course wrong, but hey, that's guy's for ya!
But anyway, it's possible he does like you and is too shy to say it. Or, maybe he doesn't. Too bad he won't tell you! Or you can just go through the old fashioned way and ask a friend to ask him.

However, since he did text you first that's a good sign! Another good sign: He talked about the past.
So, judging from that..it's possible he may have some feelings.

Your other inbox:
It's hard to forget the past. And, that doesn't make you stupid!
Believe me, I've been in your position before. You're neither stupid nor naive. You're just a normal teenage girl! I would say...about 95% of girls go through this all often haha.
But aww, yeah he seemed so sweet!
Honestly, there's not much more advice to give on these 2 inboxes. So, just make sure you make your decisions wise ones. And ALWAYS get to know someone before you have a relationship and/or friendship. You can also just weigh the Pro's and Con's of situations.

Fill me in on stuff that goes on :) haha
Thanks for the inboxes!
Have a good weekend!!


thank you! i'll update you when something happens(:

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