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hey my name is melanie :]
so my life has it's problems, and i rarely know how to fix them. but when it comes to other people's problems, i have great advice. idk what's up with that, but take advantage of it!
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Every day's an argument with my boyfriend, and it's only on ONE topic: my really good friend who happens to be a guy as well. I think that makes him uncomfortable. We've talked about it before, this has been going on for weeks. I've tried to make him understand he's strictly my friend and nothing else, and that's it.

Example: I went out with my guy friend & a few other girl friends, and we saw a movie my boyfriend wanted to see with me. He spazzed the fuck out saying that I went against my word when I didnt promise anything. Everyday's a fight over my friend. I can't do it anymore but I'm not gonna drop my friend over this since they didn't do anything to me or him. (link)
tell your boyfriend that the way he is acting is really hurting your relationship. if he cares, he'll try to see this situation from a different angle. he doesn't have a reason not to trust you. but maybe you should have invited him to that movie too lol.
hope things works out!


Rating: 5
hah, i was trying to have a friends night after all the arguing to get away from him for a little (which obviously did not work!). and yeah, i told him that it's hurting our relationship and making him like me less and less. to this, he swore & promised to change and i could take his word for it. thank you :d




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