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I am here to help you in anyway I can do in my power. I believe that it comes a time in life that we may all need some advice. And sometimes, you can't go to your friends, family, co-workers with certain issues so you come here. And it's very reassuring when you have some place to go. And people who will listen to you whatever subject it maybe.

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Age: 26
Member Since: August 24, 2009
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Last Update: November 4, 2016
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Well, I've liked him for a really long time now. We started talking this year after a lot of friend introduction (managed by me). But now we're talking a little, and everything's pretty good. The thing is, I'm attracted to him for looks, and I guess personality too but I'm not 100% sure I like what he does for fun. He likes to do weed, and get drunk. I mean, not a lot or not too often, but ya know, the fact that he did it kinda bothers me. Also, I'm scared to get closer to him because I feel that he's had more experiences with girls than I've had with guys. I'm really shy around him in person but can talk about pretty much anything online. Last night, we were having a conversation about our "freaky-ness" level. It got me really nervous cuz I'm really worried about his expectations from me. What should I do? I really want to be with him but at the same time, I don't know if he's serious or flirting or what? And if he's serious, then how do I get over my fears because I'm a pretty innocent girl.

I'm not sure how old you are but, you need to really be careful who you set your sight on. Because you can get involved with someone and that person can be your downfall. Trust me I know and it was years before I was able to rise back up again. In life our roads can get really curvy but, if you want to advoid some and stay on the straight and narrow, it's best to use some common sense. You need someone that's on your pace, you don't want some one pressuring into things you don't do. Best of luck to you

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(Rating: 5) =) Thanks. I see what you're saying. I thought about that myself but I guess it sounds better coming from someone else.


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