hello, my name is katrina but you can call me nina. what ever makes you feel comfortable. i am 20 years old and i love helping people i am currently a college student. and i would love to answer all questions for anyone who needs it. if its just so you have someone to talk to or you need real advice. please feel free to message me and ask about anything. i will answer as best as i can. thank you. *!^
E-mail: katrina-626-@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: united states
Age: 20
Member Since: August 14, 2009
Answers: 74
Last Update: January 16, 2010
Visitors: 4363
|
| |
i graduated from a school that i absolutely hated! it was a total disaster for me, and i had to go to therapy afterwards because it had a lot of bad side effects in the long run. I was treated very badly by students and faculty alike, and I just don't want to remember it or be any part of it. i suffered from an eating disorder in which I am still in therapy for, partly because i felt so out of touch with my life, and like i had no control over anything in my life. i was very close, if not, already, depressed. they told me last year, in therapy, that they were going to help me get through the year, and that when i got to college, everything was going to be so much better, and i was going to feel like a free person. so, i figured that i would feel great. i got a job, and i was going to school and everything was ok.
but, that was during the summer ( i took some classes over the summer). but, now in the fall, the work schedule and the school schedule are way too much! i don't have a day where i get a break from everything. when i'm not at school, i'm work, when i'm not at work, i'm at the gym, and that's all i do. i have not gone out since sophmore year of high school, because then i was depressed. now, i feel like i'm getting depressed again, because i don't feel any type of freedom that they were telling me about.
i can't quit my job because my mom just lost hers and all the money that i get is not for me. I haven't used ANY of my money for me. it has all been for her and for paying bills, expenses, insurances, phone bills, etc. I don't think I can do it anymore... and I don't know what to do. I'm really stressed and at this point, I'm crying. I'm tired, and I never have a break. I can't remember the last time i went shopping, or enjoyed the day and went to go do my hair and nails. now, every single day is pressed with time, and getting to places by a certain time, and if i don't go to another place at a certain time, then it's all ruined my entire schedule. i can't anymore. i'm only 18 and my hair is falling from stress.... someone please give me some advice!
i promise i'll repay with good ratings :) (link)
| |
hey.. well im going to be honest with you and tell you that i have no idea what your going through, sorry, but if i were you, im pretty sure i would cut some classes and take them next semester or something durring summer break.. i dont know about were you live but here we can do that... im only takeing 3 classes in college. its so much easier to handel.. i also have a job and woking 6 hours a day adn 3 classes gives me plenty off free time.. and as for the gym... i would also cut that down too 3 times a week or two. help you mom find a job.. tell her u need money for you too it cant be all her.. i know it sounds selfish now but you are a student in college, now is all about us haveing fun.. if we dont now then when? :p i hope i helped.. and remember to smile and lagh alot. its good for the soul :)
|
|
Rating: 5
| |
thank you for helping. i appreciate it!
|
|