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I am a 17/f. I live in a tiny town, full of older people... and in my pre.k to 12 school, there aren't a whole lot of good friends. I am not saying that there aren't people,there are.. there just aren't very many that don't smoke, aren't jerks, won't stab you in the back, wreck havoc, and so on. I have never had any (what I consider) real friends that a person can rely on. Until.. I met this one new girl, several years ago, we were best friends for several years, then she dumped me for my brother Whom she dates, sucks faces with, sleeps with, and excetera excetera. My mom who I live with (my parents are divorced) doesnt seem to care about what I think/do no matter how many times I confront her. She has a boyfriend now (he seems sort of decent) that she spends almost every spare minute with alongside my little sister (who is twelve, but acts like a baby and has my mother on the end of her pinky).
Anyhow, I really need someone I can just hang out with, be myself with, who will make me laugh, and help me smile more. I really wish I could meet some different people, get out there, find a boyfriend maybe, and yeah.. theres not much to do in a little town.
Sometimes I want to go to the city, but I want someone close to my own age to go with me. I am not a very depressed person. I draw,bake,crochet,sew,design,bike ride,play sports,play with my dog, and listen to music. I am very artistic. I just need something more exciting in my life. All these simple things are getting boring. And no, there aren't any clubs or sports that I can be involved in. What to do what to do...

First of all, i'd totally hang out with you if we lived close haha :] & second, I know what it's like to live in a small town. I live in a small town and sometimes i'm ready to rip my hair out. I have always loved the city too, so it's hard sometimes. I'm getting my license soon, so I can travel around then. I agree with that other person when they say try & get a job. Just keep your hopes up, girl, it'll get better :]

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(Rating: 5) Thats awesome that you said you'd hang out with me, haha :)
I have had a few jobs over the last few years cause I am a hard worker. I just applied/and got a new job, since I feel it was time to move on from my previous one. I hope I meet more people there. And yep, thats all I can do.. Keep smiling and keep my hopes up :) Thanks
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