Member Since: September 15, 2009
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Last Update: September 25, 2009
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ok so, i have the password to my brothers facebook. i log on to it a few times to check out recent pics and vids of my friends in the band, i dont have one, nor do i want one, thats why i use his. i logged onto it the other day and he had a conversation up with one of his buddies, admitting that he was high. that got me thinking, when your high, do you know you are? i thought it kinda made you crazy and your not thinking of reality. idk what to do anymore. he just had his buddy over and my brother went to the bathroom then him and his friend went into my brothers bedroom and i heard my brother's friend say "you made that? impressive." that only got me thinking did my brother concoct a drug in the bathroom? i dont want to go and tell my mom about this in fear of losing the relationship i have with my brother. i just dont want him getting high and doing drugs all the time, he's such a smart kid and he has such a life ahead of him. what do i do?! (link)
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Talk to your mom without alerting your brother. Then ask her to keep it low profile. The best thing your mother could do is catch him in the act..Example; finding drugs or drug paraphenilia on him or in his room, giving him a drug test, or observing his behavior. I agree that him knowing you told would not help your relationship so i suggest staying cool about this and letting your mom take care of it.
I am saying this from a ex-drug users point of view. At one point in my life i was using pot daily many other drugs on occasion. When your using and trying to be discreet about it, you think you have everyone fooled and this just accelerated your use even more when you have that comfortable feeling. What needs to happen with your brother to change is for him to hit his "rock-bottom". Something extreme needs to happen for him to realize drugs are not what he wants to get involved with. It could be losing a job because of drugs or use, trouble with the law, or your mom catching him.
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thank you. i told my mom and she talked to him and said she loves him so much and doesnt want anything to happen to him and guess what, he stopped:)
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