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Ok umm..
I like this guy(how original :P). We haven't talked much, but he knows I exist :P. We only say hi once in a while and little stuff like that. The problem is whenever I see him I feel totally tongue-tied and sort of stupid so I don't say much and I talk weirdly :P:P:P (or that's what it seems like to me - haha). There have been a few things here and there both from my side and from his that could maaaaaaaayyyybe be considered something like flirting but nothing very obvious or certain. I guess my question is how can I get myself to talk to him, then what can I talk about, and how could I show him that I like him? I'm 16 and I have never had a real relationship-only silly text message stuff in middle school...
I don't really know how one would "get into" a relationship..?
Anyway, so please give me any advice you have and thanks! (link)
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I have 2 answers for you.
The first is to go about this the adult way (how I would go about it now that I'm 20). Ask him to coffee/dinner/movie/whatever as a "hang out" sort of thing. Then you can flirt while hanging out and possibly turn it INTO a date. Which is very smooth if you can pull it off. With musicians you should talk about music... it doesn't even have to be music THEY like, just music. Whatever you listen to, talk about it and why you like it and ask them what they listen to. Ask for them to burn you a mix CD of some of their faves and offer to do the same for them.
Then there's the way I would have handled this as a 16 yr old... I would have done some recon and figured out what he listens to, where he likes to hang out and basically stalk him for a like a week. Then, based on what I had found out I would "accidently" run into him some where and act like I go there all the time, along with magically be listening to music he likes and whatnot. It would be a relationship based on stalking and lies, but it can work... Lol.
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