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Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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i got my ear lobes pierced for the first time on july 18th. the pain stopped that night and get a little sore for a few minutes after i clean and turn them. my left ear is the one giving me the problems. it itches and is more tender then my right ear. my right ear itches and is sore too, but doesnt last as long as my other ear. i clean them twice a day with the after care solution i got from piercing pagoda. i do my best to clean then with q tips, but to make sure theyre clean i wet a cotton ball with the solution and rub over the front and backs with it.

but my real question is, is the itched part of the healing process? it gets a bit red after i turn them but it goes away and is normal color until the next time i turn them. im just so paranoid about my ears right now, i love the piercings so much i dont want them infected. (link)
You're doing everything right, the only way that they would get infected is if the needle or piercing gun they used wasn't sterile. And all of my piercings (I've got 3 in one ear, 2 in the other)they all itched..and I always thought it was just me until I read this. But yeah they itch a little so just twist the earing and it solved the problem for me. You should twist them anyways throughout the day, it helps form the hole. They're going to get red, its fine as long as they're not bleeding or oozing any gross stuff.

Just so ya know..when I was younger, around 8 years old I got my first two holes pierced and for some reason I took the earings out before I was supposed to and then I couldn't get them back in and my hole ended up closing after a few days. Just make sure you keep the earings in! I had to have mine repierced.


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great! thank you soo much!




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