let's not bore you with my life story. or completely bore you with who i am.. i'll just tell you that my name is destiny. and i give pretty damn good advice. =]
i think i give good advice,
im gonna be honest, im not gonna add u on myspace,
unless i talk to you,
and get to know you a little,
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14/f
(I'm going into 9th grade this fall)
So basically I've never had good self esteem, but lately it's really plummeted. I feel like I'm weird or something...like I act really...weird. I don't know how to describe it. Like one of the weird kids in school. I've always wondered if I was...but I have lots of friends and everything...some are kind of weird and some aren't, but I didn't think they rubbed off on me. But I've been noticing lately...over the summer, I've been doing nothing...hanging out with people once every few weeks. But I had a sleepover with my best friend (who's friends with lots of popular people) and we were like taking turns on the Wii and Facebook and everything and I realised I kept saying things like "I'll own you!"(to the Wii) or "sketchy" and stuff and I felt really stupid because she would give me this look every time I did something I felt was dorky or something... believe me, my best friend is not shallow at all and I love her to death so don't blame it on her or something.
But anyways, I feel really ugly and that I have no friends and no one wants to hang out with me...I just feel like a total loser.
Last week on Facebook I posted some chain note thing where you tagged a bunch of your friends and then they were supposed to say their first impressions of you. So a bunch of people responded and the first to posts were from some of my best friends and they both said "haha, i thought u were quiet and weird...ily:)" which made me feel so stupid. The rest were like "idr" or "nice and quiet". I know I'm really quiet, and I really don't know what to do about it. I never thought it made people think I was weird though.
So could I please get some advice? I need to know how to not get so nervous around people (/being quiet) and whatever else...
Oh also, please don't give me the whole "you shouldn't care about what other people think of you" speech because I really don't care. I've heard that enough. This isn't me wondering how I can be popular or something. I truly just feel like a complete loser.
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you're not a dork, and youre not lame.
you aer YOU
if you as a person are naturally shy, then you are.
i've had a low self esteem
you just have to point out the good inyourself
like "hey, i have pretty eyes."
or "my hair looks really good"
little things like that makeyou feel better abotu yourself, trust me
people arent gunna think youre pretty and stuff if you don't . (:
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thanks! I never thought about the whole thinking of yourself as pretty makes other people think the same thing! Thanks you so much! (sorry for the late responce)
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